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My life as I know it… April 8, 2011

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Today is a beautiful day in Washington! The sun is actually shining without rain and I praise God for it : ). He has already blossomed the flowers and the gorgeous cherry blossoms with His rain and now He is providing the sun, yay!

I have recently been given words of encouragement, by God, to keep my mind pure and holy for Him. He has shared Philippians 4: 8&9 & James 1: 12-18 with me. I love that He knows what I struggle with and desires my being to be  and constantly seeking Him. It is amazing to me the sin that I can get in within my mind. Just dwelling, worrying, doubting, controlling everything in my thoughts. How gracious is God to remind me to take every thought captive to the obedience of Him and control what I am thinking to be admirable, honorable, and glorifying to His praises. Thank you God for protecting my mind so that I don’t downward spiral into ugly messes.

Another Praise God…..Grow (our Children’s Ministry) is growing/sustaining!! I think the spring weather has gotten people out of the house and back into church! We have seen familiar faces return from the winter with smiles and hugs : ) I am so thankful that God has been answering those prayers, because as the children’s pastor you begin to doubt the ministry when there aren’t that many children attending. Some wise people have continued to reassure me that even if one comes, the week’s preparation is worth it….what if that one kid is the next Billy Graham or Jim Elliot!  perseverance and controlling my thoughts have been key, think positive and trust that God knows what He is doing : )

Pray for our upcoming summer in Grow, as many teachers are either getting married, going home for the summer, or having a baby;  that others within Epic will step up for June, July, and August to teach, setup and tear down. Also, we are going to have VBS for our first time, the 2nd week of July, and a team from LaCrosse, WI will be leading it. Pray that I can get everything ready for them, so that they can understand and lead it completely by themselves!

Campbells Housing Adventure: Some of you know, while others may not…Jeff and I began looking for condos the beginning of February. Jeff had a strong calling to stay here is Seattle with Epic Life and to be better stewards of our finances regarding buying a home, instead of putting money in someone else’s pocket (aka – renting).

I on the other hand was not so on board with the idea of staying. One being, we will have a baby soon and I want to be close to our families. Two being, this summer is the end of our three-year committment here. Of course, I love the ministry and ministering and I love our body of believers here at Epic. God has really blessed our church with a strong community that loves and cherishes us. But still there was and often times still is, this underlying desire to live in the middle of NY and MN.

I told Jeff that we could start looking at places because I knew I needed to submit to him as my husband. My heart though was not there yet. Thankfully one day I didn’t have work until 9am and got to spend 3 hours with God. Reading, praying and journaling about the struggles and desires of my heart. I asked that God would reveal to me a Scripture reading that would speak to me, so clearly, as to what Jeff and I are to do about houses. Is the door open to stay or are you closing it? Where do you want us to be?

I flipped my Bible open, randomly, and landed in Acts (can’t remember the chapter and don’t want to go get my journal out of my car). The chapter was about Paul describing his next missionary journey to start more churches and his struggles and God’s desires for him. It spoke so clearly to me, that yes God has the door open for us to stay in Seattle. As I continued reading the study notes, a commentator commented on one of the verses saying, “God often asks us to go above and beyond the call of duty, to further the kingdom of God.” And that was my slap in the face! Lovingly of course : )

God knows my desires of my heart and my passions for life in His will, better than I do and I need to trust Him with that! Even though it seems very difficult at times…which is so stupid….look at what He has done for me, why doubt! I say “Good Grief” to that!!! Proverbs 3: 5&6 says: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”

So…..we have looked and looked and looked at condos/townhouses for two months now. We are approved for a certain amount and it is a FHA approved loan. FHA typically means for 1st time home buyers, complex is over 50% owner occupied and move in ready. Therefore, we only looked at FHA approved homes. Well it came down to two places – one was a major fixer and the second was move in ready. Well last Friday we found out that the fixer was not FHA approved and will never be and the move in ready HOA dues were more than what they were advertising, which put it out of our budget. Needless to say, we had a meltdown!

We had to start all over looking at places on Saturday because everything we had looked at the last two months had a pending sale! They are selling like hotcakes!! Imagine our disappointment and fear of not finding a place! Of course doubt had to be added and anger : ) But praise God that Jeff and I spent time before the Lord just confessing our sins about this whole house ordeal….God blessed us! We went to meet with one of our realtors and she was so encouraging and even referenced that we should pray. (we are unsure where she stands personally with God). She encouraged us to look at three more places that day that aren’t FHA approved, but could be during the offering process. Well we did and the first place we went to was it!!

Townhouse, two bedrooms (one is a loft), 1.25 bathrooms, large living and dining, smaller kitchen, and our own little yard!! Here is where God really needs to work His miracles: it isn’t FHA approved (typically townhouses aren’t) and it is a short sale…..which the “short” part of short sale is necessarily short! Those types of sales can last up to 7 months!! But we prayed a lot, asked our parents and church to pray and we put an offer in on Sunday, April 3, 2011. Guess what, the next day the seller agent accepted our offer and put more restrictions on days of inspections and closing so that the banking agent will know that both parties want to close before June 1st! Huge praise. And the seller agent has closed 6 short sales, which apparently is unheard of. And the agent said she doesn’t see why the townhouse wouldn’t get FHA approval because the complex is over 50% owner occupied and it is move in ready!

So now pray that the bank approves our offer. It is a smaller bank, so we are hopeful that they will look at our offer sooner, as oppose to a large bank that has so many homes/contracts to view.

Ok done updating now because I have other work to do : )

 

April 8, 2011

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Beginning of third trimester-15 1/4inches long & a little over 2lbs

 

October 5, 2010

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3 year anniversary - Benihana's = yummy!!!

 

Anniversary… October 5, 2010

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Hello Blog Readers…

What is new I am sure you are wondering?? Well a couple of big and exciting things have happened for Jeff and I and Epic Life Church – ANNIVERSARIES!!!

Jeff & I have been married for 3 YEARS now!! Can you believe how quick the time has gone by? I can’t! It seems like just yesterday I met Jeff and he was coming to visit my family for Thanksgiving. We were so blessed by everyone’s thoughtfulness and “Happy Anniversary”. We got all pretty and handsome and went to a restaurant called Benihana. This is a place with hibachi grills and sits up to 8 people per table. We were at a table where it ended up being Jeff and I and one other couple (who later found out that they were Christians too!) The Chef was great and they always do neat tricks as they are cooking and telling jokes.

Our meal consisted of: fruit smoothies, which were delicious. Crunchy shrimp sushi was our appetizer. With our meal came a salad, soup, hot tea, veggies, and baby shrimp. Of course I had to get colossal shrimp and fried rice and Jeff got steak and fried rice. On top of all of that the Chef forgot that the other couple ordered chicken and accidentally gave it to us (fortunately he cooked more chicken for the other couple : ). ) We were given two pineapple boats for our anniversary and Jeff’s meal came with chocolate sorbet! Needless to say we had leftovers, which were just as fabulous the next day!!

Epic Life’s Anniversary – so our team moved out here to Seattle, WA 2 years ago, but the dream began 4 years ago!! We have officially been publicized and in the theater for 1 year : ). We celebrated with a Family Sunday ( a Sunday where there is no Children’s Ministry and everyone is in the big service). 120 people!!! The sermon was a recap of where God has taken us throughout the Bible and the Gospel and vision of Epic Life was shared. Then in the evening we had a worship/baptism/vision night!! We got to watch a video that some leader put together that recapped the past year and focused on the different ministries that have continued to develop. Hopefully that will be on our website (www.epiclifechurch.org).

Past year events and happenings in Epic Life Church:

-9 Baptisms

-5 House Churches

-20+ Children

-Community Garden

-Mission Teams

-A Block Party

-Growth in Youth

-Recovery Ministry began

-80-100+ people on Sunday mornings

 

Canada….eh? August 24, 2010

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Did you know that Canadians really say “eh?” after a lot of sentences?? Mainly after questions or if they say a sentence and are inquiring what the other person thinks. Kind of like Americans say…”ya know” or “don’t you think” after a lot of sentences.

We were just blessed with some time away from Seattle and had an adventure in Chatham, Canada (an hour from London, which is 3 hours away from Detroit, Michigan). Our friends Josh and Becky got married, where Becky is from. Her home reminded us so much of Minnesota. She lives/d on a chicken farm… 9,000 chickens in one barn and the three total with chickens in them!!! Open fields and gravel roads…it was quiet and peaceful : ) and very humid!!!

Some of my favorite things about our five-day trip:

-the green and yellow fields that went one forever

-the short, full trees

-the gravel roads

-the stars and noises of insects at night

-Becky’s lovely family that hosted us

-Patricia’s chocolate chip cookies

-the golden doodle Catie

-the devotions and coffee time

-the wedding – very traditional and dutch : )

-conversations with my husband, the family, and Averi

We are so grateful for that refreshing time away and just wanted to share it with you!!

 

well…. August 7, 2010

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long time no type!! Where to even begin? I don’t even remember what I wrote in my previous blog, so I will just update on what has been going on the last couple of months.

Month of June went whizzing by that I am having a hard time recollecting what happened. I know we celebrated our friends Sam and Shelli’s birthday on the 14th. We went camping with the Roper family on the weekend on the 20th’ish. Camping is very different in WA than in MN….the pine trees are so incredibly tall here that you have to leave the campsite to see if it is even sunny. Where as in MN the tress are short and wide and the sun shines very brightly there. Of course Jeff loves the shade and I like being in the sun rays.

July, my birthday of course and was blessed by so many of you with wonderful phone calls and cards. My amazing husband made teriyaki chicken, rice, vegetables, egg rolls, and cheesecake….all from scratch!! Lovely. Then we went cosmic bowling with a few friends. Last month Jeff was very busy with financial meetings within our church and house churches. As most of you have or will receive a letter/postcard/brochure about all of that. Him and two other ladies went and spoke with each small group about tithing and where our church is at financially. I have just been busy with children’s ministry….in July we had a goal of getting 10 backpacks filled with school supplies to give to families in need in our communities and God gave us 16!!

A huge youth group came from Texas to minister along side of our church, 50 high school students!! We’ve also had two interns help out the last month that had come from Alabama.

Personally within our marriage we have been talking a lot about babies, houses, WA, family. Please lift us up in your prayers regarding the next stages that are coming in our life. That God would bring us into unity in decisions with discernment, wisdom, and faith in everything we do. We have been learning a lot about where God has us at and the beauty and difficulties in everything! Praise God that He is just, faithful, and forever loving.

This coming week we will be near London, Canada for our friends’ Josh and Becky’s wedding. Tuesday evening to Sunday. Jeff will be his best man and is excited to be in a wedding…usually I am in the wedding party and Jeff has to tag along : ).

We love you all and thank you for all your support and prayers!!

Love, Kari

 

4:40am April 22, 2010

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Well it is a dark and quiet morning…..I was up all night with a migraine, took Excedrin (which cured the migraine but has caffeine and has kept me up all night because I took it on an empty stomach).

But you know what?! I can really hear God speak in the wee hours of the night and morning – probably because I’m not talking His ear off because mentally and physically I’m tired. Anyways, God spoke – He said rest in me, My peace is with you always.

I don’t know if you know this about me but I’m a constant thinker. Topics include – dwelling on issues, praying, singing, creating to do lists, contemplating, thinking about people, places, ideas, dreams…..ya know the norm. Well I have been reading this book titled Meet Mr. Smith (is the title suppose to be underlined or italicized?). This book is written by Eric and Leslie Ludy and it is about marriage stuff. I mean singles, pre-married, and/or already married people can read it, but Jeff and I read it a few months after we got married.

I ran out of Karen Kingsbury books : ) ; P, so I decided to re-read some of the books we have at home and this was the one I chose (along with a heavy read book titled Unveiling Islam) Continuing on with the purpose of this blog…..

One of the characters in the book is Mr. Purity and there is a test in the back of the book. The first question was, “What or where is the position of prayer in your life?”.

What a good question? I thought anyways. So I have been chewing on that one for a while now and encourage you to do the same.

It is a process, ya know, to captivate your every thought whether it is sinful or God glorifying. Even that thought – are all thoughts either wrong or right – black or white? All I know is I am pursuing more prayer and singing, as oppose to dwelling, worrying, comparing, and thinking poorly of others.

So please be in prayer for me as I learn and I will do the same for you!!

 

Hello March 25, 2010

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Hello fellow readers!! How are you doing these days….months since my last blog : )?? Well let me inform you of the BEAUTIFUL weather we are having here…spring has been present in Seattle for a few months down. Some bushes have already bloomed and are starting their next round of flowers!! Is the snow gone from MN yet or NY (one thing that I do not miss!)

God has also been present.

He has continued to bless my husband and I with stable jobs, growing ministries and most importantly our marriage and relationships with Christ! We both are in Bible studies, which has been great…Jeff is studying Nehemiah and I am doing a book study by Joyce Meyer I Dare You! House Churches are growing and more men are rising up as leaders. GROW(children’s ministry) has been growing to 15-20 children per week. Way up from 5 at the beginning!!

Continue to pray for us….

-God’s provision – that we continue to trust in Him even when things go wrong with a car or whatever else

-Our obedience to His calling and discernment in specific areas that God is calling us to minister in

-Marriage – continued encouragement and seeking God’s will to be the center of our marriage

Thank you all for your love and support!!

Love -Kari Jo

 

Just wanted to type… November 4, 2009

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So I just finished spending some time with a friend of mine and now am awaiting the arrival of my husband. (He has been asked to work 11-7pm on Tuesdays) And thought to myself, “I should blog”

I am unsure what I should blog about but I am sure those that read would like just about anything : ) Love you!

I have been blessed with a wonderful husband, family, friends, church body, job, gifts, etc. God has done a marvelous job this fall – it is one out of two of my favorite seasons – I love the colors on the leaves and the fresh, crisp air. God has provided a little break in the rainy weather, so I have taken advantage of it and gone on a few walks. I love the fall smells as well. mmmmm!

Everything has been going well. Still enjoying our apartment, we are both growing in our jobs with either leadership or culinary skills (more so Jeff in that area!)

Jeff’s mother and grandmother came for a visit a week and a half ago. We had a wonderful time visiting, laughing, playing hand and foot, looking at pictures. Took them to the market, a couple parks, and beaches. They really enjoyed church and couldn’t believe how green it was here.

That was my first time (since being at the theater) that I wasn’t in Children’s Ministry. Let me tell you – was I trying so hard to not be distracted by worrying about what was going on in the kids theater! God kept reassuring me….you can trust me. And I could and did – everything went well!!!

Jeff will be working this coming Sunday to cover for another gentleman, so pray for him as he is there and I’m at church. It will make for a short weekend.

I hope this finds everyone doing well. Our new website, if you haven’t already seen it is www.epiclifechurch.org

Love you

 

Faith October 5, 2009

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Our lesson for the children this week was in Matthew 6: 25-34.

DO NOT WORRY  is the subtitle of those verses!

This is easier said than done for me. As most of you may know I was struggling this week to trust that God was going to provide enough teachers, helpers, and set-up crew for the Children’s Ministry GROW.

I had a few melt-downs in my head and a few through tears.

God is FAITHFUL – He provided exactly what we needed and He had everything under control!

Our lessons talked about when Jesus was teaching those around him that they didn’t need to worry and they could have FAITH in God because of the things He made and how He takes care of them. IE. Birds and Flowers – think of the different kinds there are. Now what do they eat or where do they grow? God provides everything they need. We can believe in a God we can’t see because you can see what God has made.

I couldn’t see or know who all the teachers and helpers were but I could believe in God and He provided!!

 

 
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